Posted by Charlotte on May 7, 2006, 4:22 am
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Greetings all. It seems as though I have found a nice community to share with. Thank you in advance for indulging me. Yesterday, I had to put my 11 mo old sweet black cat to sleep due to a liver condition. I feel as though I have had my guts ripped out. It hurts so much and I have cried and cried for the past 24 hours. Spooky was my angel, the most affectionate, loving cat I have ever encountered in my 40 years. I find I am still looking for him to come round the corner and snuggle in my lap. I know this is normal and you have to just go through the grieving process but what really breaks my heart is watch his brother pace the house, looking for Spooky. They were constant companions and playmates. Joined at the hip, if you will. My son and I have lavished him with love and he has licked my tears away. He slept and cuddled with me last night, which was a first. I am just beside myself trying to figure out how to help him. He is obviously confused and sad. Can anyone offer and other suggestions for easing him into this new life without his brother? He is extremely social and friendly. I have an older cat who ocassionally pays attention to him and a dog that is sweet but usually indifferent to him. Thank you so much and I really would value any ideas any of you might have.