I have had this happen too, I thought before though about going back again, my hubby would not want me to go through going twice in one day.
I also went when it was very hot one time, I decided not to do that again. Then I thought wait why not put a special flower out in the back yard in memory? He is not really at cemetery anyway.
So when I cannot go on the exact day I do that.
We all understand, and care here. I know I feel alone when others do not want to talk about my hubby, or not to hear it and OH NO not go to cemetery no wonder we feel bad.
Why not instead write us something here, so we can know more about Cap. Tell us of a fun trip, or special event or funny thing that happened. Remember him here with those that do care & support you.
Please be sure you drink some water, do not get dehydrated, eat a bite of fruit, a few bites of toast, you will feel better.
It is so natural to cry. I cried so hard so many times, I realized it did not help. I started trying to spend day remembering great vacations or holidays, what we ate, the trip to coast or other. It was much better once I started that.
Maybe make a new tradition on the angelversary write him a poem or letter.
sorry for your loss, he is still with you, true love between you!
Pam
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