Posted by David Justin on March 4, 2006, 2:37 pm, in reply to "Bullying at school - no surrender!" --Previous Message-- Please know that the teacheres supporting a code of SILENCE in these matters is very wrong...I would definitely have your Mum move you to a different school.... Looking forward to a new school and news of good friends...and lads..
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: I was bullied at school for a whole three
: weeks before I did something about it.
: Unfortunately what I did got me suspended
: and the person who bullied me got nothing,
: except 2 broken fingers which I gave him
: when I bashed him with a hockey stick. I go
: (went?) to boarding school where the elder
: boys almost run the place. Im 13+yrs so Im
: at the bottom of the order and
: "subject" to everyone else above
: me. A prefect took a dislike to me and began
: to make my life hell because I wouldn't play
: his games which included touching me. I am
: gay and prefer friendships with gay boys my
: own age. No one at school knows Im gay
: because oddly that would be really bad news.
: The day i got suspended I was in the grounds
: when this prefect appeared and then really
: laid into me for no reason. he just kept on
: picking on me and screaming at me. Well, I
: just went crackers and lost control. I
: grabbed a hockey stick from a boy who was
: about to go off and play and hit the prefect
: twice. Apparently his hand took the full
: force of the second blow which is when it
: broke his fingers.
: Its odd, because I have never had a fight
: with anyone or wanted to. I rarely argue and
: never loose my temper and rarely remain
: upset with anyone for more than fractions of
: seconds. Until this prefect started on me I
: never had any enemies either, but suddenly I
: had and they were all his friends. I didn't
: know most of them. Never spoken to them.
: I never ever got into trouble at my last
: school.
: So, the school has sent me off to
: "consider my present and future."
: I refused to apologies because I think the
: prefects behaviour was
: "unreasonable." I know mine was,
: but it was because Id had enough. Because of
: the strict code of not snobbing I could do
: nothing about him - ever! Even teachers
: support the code so I would have got no
: sympathy there.
: Not sure where Im going now because my
: mother seems bent on protecting me! Another
: new school looks likely!
: Thanks for letting me write this. It has
: helped me.
:
Wow don't feel bad that you hit the guy...He desserved what he got...especially since he wanted to play "games" and touch you. I assume this means that he wanted to play with you in a sexaul way...
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