Posted by Craig Thanks for posting your message. Obviously - you have been VERY hurt by someone. I'm really sorry about that. It's not fair. When a person has been subjected to cruelty - as you have been - they often become consumed by what's happened to them. [understandably so] They often exhaust themselves by reliving what has happened to them - over and over again in their minds. Practically every thought begins with 'WHAT IF'. [as in 'WHAT IF' I did this or 'WHAT IF' I did that or the other 'thing', etc.] We wonder IF there was something we COULD have done to keep ourselves from becoming a target. The trouble with those types of thoughts is that they are based on LOGIC - and there is nothing 'logical' about bullying. It's like trying to fit a circle into a square. [does that makes sense?] The frustrating thing about bullying is that there IS no 'logic' to it. A 'bully' simply bullies someone because he or she THINKS that they can get away with it. [and - unfortunately - most of the time they do] Please - for your OWN sake - focus less on wishing that something bad would happen to the person who has bullied you and MORE on making YOUR life a better life. Don't give 'your' bully even MORE power in your life than he/she already has. Take care of yourself, GREAT BIG HUG
on March 23, 2003, 2:15 pm, in reply to "Bully"
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Hi Sora!! 
Craig!!
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