Posted by Craig I am so proud of you. It took a LOT of courage to post your message and to share with me [and the rest of us] what YOU went through. Not many people would have that courage. I truly am sorry to hear about what happend to you. How absolutely horrible. As I'm sure you already know - those guys had NO right to do that to you. I was glad to hear that Randy [and one of the other guys] decided that they didn't like what was being done to you. It's just too bad they didn't stop it from happening in the first place. I was glad to hear that Randy apologized - to you AND to your parents. That must have been a very difficult thing for him to do. I was sorry to hear that he was killed by a drunk driver. Just so you know - no matter what has happened to you [up on baldy hill that day - and every day before that] nothing changed YOUR value as a person. You were the victim. None of it was your fault. The bully [or the abuser] is always 100% at fault. You are just as value and just as special TODAY as you were before any of the bullying started. You do know that - don't you?? Were any of the guys charged by the police?? They should have been - especially the guy who 'humped' you. [or tried to 'hump' you] I hope you're OK. I hope that you will - someday - be able to put all of the bad memories of what happened to you - where they belong - in your past. But until you're able to do that - please keep talking about what you have gone through. Talking about the bad things that happened to us is the very first step to feeling better about life and feeling better about ourselves. GREAT BIG HUG
on May 29, 2003, 12:35 pm, in reply to "PUNCHING BAG"
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Dear Shaun!! 
Craig!!
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