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on May 7, 2004, 3:15 pm, in reply to "My thoughts on bullies and those who pick on people!"
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When I was younger I was picked on alot. I felt different inside & had a confidence problem. One day my dad explained to me that those patterns will follow you into life if you don't deal with them early. He told me about his friend Bill who lost several good job options because (1) of job superiors was a former "bully" in school & believe it or not, those people often stay BAD into adulthood -- and adulthood is where it's really tough to deal with the issues because of the legal system which is MUCH more leniant on minors. My dad explained that if pushed, I should hit, hit hard & aim to do damage & that if I was in the right, he'd back me. Well, knowing he'd back me up if I was right meant a lot & if you're being bullied, I suggest you ask your parents if they will back you up if you're ever in a fight & in the right. You have no idea what kind of pressure a pissed off parent can bring on a school. Well, I was 12 & still small -- but I was working out on my dad's home gym. In april of my 6th grade year, a guy 2 years older than me who had been giving me a hard time began to start it again in the hall, -- calling me a fag & right in front of the teacher (who did nothing). Seeing that the teacher was going to do nothing, I took 1 step toward the guy & with all the force in my body stomped on the end of his toes driving my heel down hard. The pain doubled him over & I steped back some and gave it to him in the mouth with everything I had.
Although I cut my knuckles pretty bad, I destroyed his dental work & he left the school in an ambulance with a serious bleeding problem.
At first the school was going to expell me but dad hit them with a sexual harrassment lawsuit citing the teacher who witnessed the "taunting" & doing nothing as evidence of the unofficial policy of the school to support sexual harrassment. The school caved in at once & suddenly, there was "no problem".
So this is the deal: At first, some people will paint you as the "bad guy". these people are called "idiots". Say it: "idiots". then there are people who are interested in the facts. And then there are the people who don't care about the facts, -- rather how the story can be "spun" in the public eye. Such people are called "COWARDS". Say it: "Cowards".
The Cowards (school administration) will cave in to who ever has the biggest stick. If you are a "sexual minority", be sure to use the term "ACLU" a lot when you reach the point of comparing big-sticks ... because if the ACLU takes your case ... the school will cave to the pressure 99 times out of 100. Look them up online. Anyway, NOBODY picked on me again that year and by the time I was in 8th grade, I had grown quite a bit & wasn't the target I used to be. If you're being bullied, it's bigger than just the "now". Break the cycle -- even if it means getting in trouble because while you're under "adult age", you can almost get away with murder with a slap on the hand. Other than that, it's all a head job authority tries to pull on you. They won't do SQUAT (They'll just pretend heads will roll...so be aware of their mind trick & don't let them make you nervous)! there most certainly IS a time for violence! If you doubt that, then look up "Thomas Paine Common Sense" on the Internet & read the document he wroyt -- that touched off the US Revolutionary War.
Hit a bully hard ... make an example of him (or her) & your life will be much BETTER for it. Break their teeth, smash their bones & make them bleed. You're not only fighting for your quality of life now, but also in the future; -- & too many idiots don't have the common sense to realize that. No mercy to bullies because they DESERVE NONE. More on this: http://www.bullyonline.org/
: You know I had trouble with people picking on
: me but when I got to about 8th or 9th grade I
: said #### that I am not taking shit from no
: one. Bullies for the most part are pussies
: they pick on people they think don't have a
: chance of being able to fight back with them.
: And those that make fun of people they do it
: for enjoyment especially if they can get a
: reaction out of you.
: One day when I was in 9th grade this dick
: head called me a faggot and called my mother
: a whore I was ####ing pissed I punched him so
: hard I knocked him into the locker from the
: opposite end of the wall and made his teeth
: loose and his gums bleed. Eventually when I
: have ended up being in so many fights
: defending myself and other people I got put
: in Behavior Disorder for kids with problems I
: mean shit far I didn't do anything wrong but
: yet they treated me like a criminal so thats
: my story. Sorry to hear what you guys have
: been through.
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