Posted by Nathaniel One of my friends (girl, btw) that I just met is really beginning to bother me. She keeps asking me "How do you know you're gay? how can you be sure?" After I thought about it, I wasn't even sure myself, I was so confused. I wasn't sure what I was, and really got upset over it. The next day she asked me out and I said yes just to prove either one way or another my label, which I remind you, I had only had for a couple months and trying to understand myself. So now I'm with this girl and I'm not feeling comfortable with it for this reason. I don't understand myself or what I feel and I really need help. I don't think she'd understand if i told her and I really don't want to hurt her feelings by calling it off yet. So I won't do anything until I'm a bit more sure. And for the final note, I've never been with a girl or a guy, so that is another reason why I'm 'experimenting'. I really want to understand but I need help...from somewhere. Thanks guys
on June 15, 2004, 5:31 am
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Hi everyone, I'm 14 and I've liked to label myself as gay for a couple months now. I don't know why, but it makes me feel more secure to be labeled as that more than anything else. Here's the problem.
Nathaniel 
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