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Posted by Robbin on 5/6/2006, 7:54 am I did not want to do this publically because frankly I was embarrassed when I was chided for not giving apology, and I didn't want Helen to be embarrassed as I was. But that hasn't worked so this is my last resort. Below is what I had forwarded to Helen. I have chosen to approach you privately regarding this issue, rather than simply posting this on the Board, as this is how it is to be handled according to Scripture. I would have rather done this more directly, but I will go through the channel you have chosen to use, for now. Over the past week or so I have found myself getting angry at times. Not over our discussion, but rather over the fact that I requested something of you when I made my public apology, and you chose not to acknowledge it. I had asked you to please stop judging my emotional state. Later in another thread to Traci you again mentioned several times about the “heat” and “emotions” of the debate. It HAS angered me that you continue to ignore my honest statements regarding my lack of anger during our back and forth discussion. It HAS angered me that you ignored my request for a change on your part, going so far as to continue to foment the idea that I was angry during the discussion. Helen, I went back through all the posts and this is what I found: • You made 43 disparaging remarks about me, and judging my emotion • I made 11 statements stating the lack of anger or any other emotions • I made 28 statements alluding to, or simply stating I was looking for honest clarification Robbin
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I have tried to do this privately, to no avail. A neutral third party forwarded this message to Helen, and suggested we communicate via PM on the new message board. I have checked throughout the week and there has been nothing in my PM.
Helen,
This includes the later post in Traci’s thread.
I would hope that this time my effort to point out to you that you were in error when assigning emotion where none existed will be more fruitful. As well as gaining an apology for initially judging my emotion and making disparaging comments regarding my emotions and desire for clarification.
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