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Two codependents together in the workplace

Posted by hem on 12/8/2005, 11:42 am

I believe that I may be codependent. Anyway, I have started to work at a place with an extreme codependent. She is going through a divorce and has medical problems, and everyone pities her. I feel bad that she has problems; it's not that. My peeve is that she pushes me around at work. She is passive to everyone else, but she is always tryig to mother me, and I am sick of her. The only good thing about it is that I am seeing how I used to do that to my husband. I have apologized to him because I realize now how it makes other people feel stupid. Other people can take responsibility. How do I deal with her without her driving me insane? I want to say something to her, but if anyone finds out and or I upset her, she's the office martyr, and everyone else would then be angry with me for speaking up for myself. Do I just put up with it? We are like oil and water.

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Message Thread: Two codependents together in the workplace - hem 12/8/2005, 11:42 am Re: Two codependents together in the workplace - justme 12/8/2005, 8:46 pm Re: Two codependents together in the workplace - J 12/26/2005, 9:52 pm Re: Two codependents together in the workplace - Clear Shares 1/6/2006, 10:04 pm « Back to thread

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