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Posted by Harmony on 2/3/2006, 4:24 pm In the meantime, i feel very guilty for what I've done to hurt him and the other people in my life, and I've begun to wonder: When i do get my life under control, would it be dangerous to go back to a man with enabling patterns, even if he was never doing it on purpose and is now aware of the problem? I'm worried that i might relapse if I go back to him, but I can't imagine not being with him. Am I going through one of those codep patterns, or just putting the cart before the horse? being without him is tearing me apart, and I need to know if I should hold out for better days between us, or let go of him for good. Any advice is deeply appreciated.
I'm a codep who has put a lot o people through a lot of pain. I don't have the time to write out my entire story, but the gist of it is that a man who has loved me unconditionally and treated me like gold for 2 years has finally realized that he has been enabling me in the past, and has left me in the hopes that I will create a better life for myself. He says that once I've done that he's more than willing to give us another try.
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