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Posted by Evan About a month ago she started to distance herself from me stating that she needed "space" and now she doesn't call me very often or see me very often. When I asked about it, she stated that she needed to find herself and become "herself". As a result I have put more pressure and have shown up and called her very routinely. She has in a nut-shell started to ignor me and contact me as she feels she wants too. I'm very hurt by her behavior towards me, but understand why she wants to become herself. The problem here is that I feel that I've became co-dependent and/or addicted to her. I feel that I've met a completely different person, and have posed to arguments stating my feelings, but she doesn't appear to care anymore, but I know that she does love me. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should try to confront this addiction?
on 2/5/2006, 12:54 pm
Hello, My name is Evan and I met a woman about 10 months ago who started out as a friend. She was just going through a divorce and was attracted to me. Anyway we started to have a relationship, soon after. We were very close and spent alot of our time together. We would communicate through various means most of the day and would see each other as often as time dictates. We had a lot of romance, but lately she has wanted a smaller amount of that, with little to no affection coming from her.
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