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Posted by CLOWN PANTS on 2/12/2006, 11:53 am, in reply to "Re: im still with him/ why?"
I have been with this guy off and on for 4 years
during this time he has been cheating on me, I ignored it until a women called me and forwarded his email about how bad of a person i was and how he never loved me, and would get a restaining order against me. ALl this while he keep coming over harrashing me to be with him. I almost lost my mind. he seem so deseperate to do anything to keep me in his life. I vowed to be different and more understanding at that time of because I believed his lies, and ignored the fact that he decieted me. Now I never pressure him for time he dedided when and how much time he would spend with me because of his so hectic (being a lawyer and a pharmacist, community activist and all) busy schedule so I have been there for him in every crisis in his life with his kids, divorce patiently awaiting for us to interwine our lives together then, bam I find out he is acting like a family man, but, with someone else WHAT THE HE%%%, Everything I was doing for him, supporting him, believing in him means nothing ZERO, because he gave it to her.
she gets the family outing with his kids, he undivided attention. while I get I am sick I can't make it, my daughter sick my mom is sick
there is always an excuse on why he can't be with me. HE never let our kids play but, he did with her kids. I am tired and exhaulted with this game he is playing. but, when I am ready to leave he comes on strong and bam I am riding the rollercoaster again
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