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Posted by Barb on 2/15/2006, 10:10 am, in reply to "Re: spouse of a codependent in need of help"
Wow! There is a reason I ended on this site. I just found some information for my husband called, "Husbands Guide to understanding Codependency".
I am codependent. Been doing good for about a year and then I got involved with a recovering addict and I 'lost it'!
No boundries, totally enabling, went crazy. Of course, my husband got more of my wrath then my friend. I pretty much wrote her off. Nearly lost my marriage though.
I'm doing better today because I wanted to get better. Started reading my self-help books again. Wanted my husband to understand what I'm going through though.
I would say, just give your GF alot of hugs and let her know she is O.K. She will only function one day at a time and maybe you could keep this in mind also.
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