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Posted by maya
on 3/14/2006, 7:00 pm
hello. i have a problem. i met a guy almost a year now, when he was passing through a divorce.i felt that i shouldn't get into a relationship with him because he needed time to recover from the divorce.i did not want to get more involved, i was afraid of making a mistake. but he told me he really liked me, that we had a connection, and at that time i did felt it too, but as soon as things were so great, and we talked and make plans, he started to change. he told me we were going too fast. then he was distant. seemed like another person.
it is almost a year now, and as much as i feel involved with him, i feel he is less and less involved with me. he told me that he can't have a serious relation, or a girlfriend, because he has so many plans. he does not call me, and when we see eachother, (he is from other city)i feel he is just there with me because he wants to have sex. lately he just visits me once a month.
i love him. i do. but i can't stand his behavior.
i know i have to cut this relation, because it hurts me to see him come and go without a word for me.
how can i make this work? or how can i take the courage to tell him not to come back?
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