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Posted by Christa on 3/20/2006, 1:23 pm, in reply to "codependency is destroying my life"
i experience you as talking more about this guy than yourself, classic codependence. what he is doing is really controlling you, and i hear you feel anxious when he distances and have to see him to get your fix. all we can do is to work on ourselves. if it's possible, focus on loving yourself and the answer will come to you. i am so much a codependent this is what i do wrong when i am in a relationship ... like i am addicted to the guy or the relationship drama ... addicted to suffering is more like it. so tough when i am in it. that's my take for what it is worth. don't get the impression this guy is into you. one thing i've learned in life, is there could be so many motives out there and i don't try to understand what other's motives. kind of a waste of time.
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