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helping a co-dependent

Posted by val on 4/27/2006, 7:14 pm

hi. my sister is with an alcoholic man, niether one admits to the truth. she insists she can "fix" him and get him through this. she enables him to drink and is also a co-dependent, often lying to us and herself about his drinking issues and ignoring the truth. how do you help someone like that see the truth? what can you say to them to get them to see they are the co-dependent part of an unhealthy relationship?? we (the family) have all told her what we think and gone so far as to tell her to choose between us and him. But she insists that we dont see the "good" in him and that he will change. any advise before she gets herself or her son killed???

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