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Posted by lakota482 on 4/28/2006, 7:07 am She's the sweetest person I've met in along time, never has a bad thing to say, abhors drugs and addictions, even helped me to quit smoking (One of my last addictions!). Overall, she doesn't even have any issues for me to fix, which is the biggest shock for me out of them all. The problem is that I seem to be trying to make up the fact that she has no issues by wanting to help her with everything, buy her anything, etc. Basically it's like the co-dependency is rearing it's head at someone that's acctually not gonna just hurt me in the end. I realized I was getting all the attachment of the co-dependency last night when I was with her, and it scared me because I acctually care about this girl, unlike my several last relationships I stayed in regardless of how depressed they made me. As soon as I noticed them, I instantly locked up... went home and she talked to me on the computer and all I said was that I felt like I needed to vanish for awhile (Time to try to break this cycle I seem to have started - my norm.) she got upset and worried, so I broke down and told her what was going on and even sent her some information on co-dependency. So it seems I found a decent person, any one have any suggestions or advice so I don't just scare her away now that she realizes some of the baggage I'm carrying? -Matt
So I recently started seeing a girl, she's acctually the first winner I've had in a long chain of losers. Dealt with physical, emotional and verbal abuse in every relationship I've ever been in, and this one seems to be so different.
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