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Posted by Lisa on 6/8/2006, 11:32 am Anyways 2 saturday nights ago, I got this phone call at 4am in the morning it was him snoring, a woman then came on line to tell me he has paided her rent and he will never be back to me. 10 am that Sunday morning he and I where doing the enevitable face to face he still loves me blah blah.... But for him to live with that crack ***** is very easy he doesn't have to do anything, he's always been a bit of a fancy lad and enjoys being spoiled. We phoned each other back and forth all the next wk fighting/crying it out. Then Thursday night he shows up at my house and wouldn't leave till Saturday when I left him to go to a party. he kept calling my cell asking me to come home. I didn't, he then called to say fine he's going home to the 'new' woman. The other woman then phoned me from his cell asking me if it was true that he refused to have sex with me?!!??? I realize that we where not fully living together anymore but to hear him snoring was for me was so utterly shocking the intimacy level I just can't get the sound out of my head. I didn't think anything could cut so quick to my soul as to hear him snore! And still he won't acknowledge my pain he says he didn't do it and he had no control over it!!!!
I've been with the yonger man for almost 10 yrs it was never easy but we where and are friends. Last yr I couldn't take his drinking and asked him to stop coming around in that state. He agreed, we still saw each other regularly.
How could a man who I was thought was a bright person end up with such people?
I can't stop thinking about this or wanting to call him and I know how stupid that is.
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