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Posted by Tanya on 6/15/2006, 10:18 am, in reply to "young, dazed, and confused"
Hello Serena,
It sounds like a great idea that you will be away for a month. This will give you a chance to think as you said. This is what you need. Do you keep a journal? If you don't, start doing this everyday. It helps me. Sometimes my feelings about one issue in my life overlaps with other issues and I get all mixed up. By writing down your feelings every day, it helps to sort through what you feel about each issue. I think you need to decide in this thinking time whether or not your boyfriend is the right person for you. If you decide that he is wonderful for you, such as he is trustworthy and his temper is not "out of hand" then you must start concentrating on why you do what you do as for as being so mistrusting. You must learn that you come first, make sure you are having time with other friends and not just totally focusing all your time on the relationship. Maybe, think about therapy if you don't already go to a therapist.
Tanya
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