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Posted by Charles on 7/6/2006, 2:24 pm, in reply to "Girlfriend broke up with me, saying she was codependent on me"
Hey man, I am in the same boat on a smaller scale. I had been in a three year relationship and I had a daughter out of it. Well, we brkoe up, which was exactly what we needed to do. Then, a few months later I met a girl who was 19 and I thought so perfect for me. We were together for 7 months and she was everything to me. We pretty much lived together for the most part, and she helped me with my daughter when I would have her, and we had great sex and all the good stuff. But, she every so often would mention that she was unhappy, because she felt tied down, and didn't like to be in the step mom role. She turned 20 during our relationship and I thougtht, "Boy do I have it made, a 20 year old, great personality, great body." Well she has been gone for the summer doing some training and while she was gone she decided that she didnt need a boyfriend anymore and that she was in a relationship with someone headed in a different direction than her, etc. She said I didn't do anything wrong, but we just dont do the things she wants to do and whatever. Anyhow, I am absolutely crushed and devistated. I cant eat, sleep, think, without the pain of her in my mind.
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