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Posted by Hank on 7/8/2006, 2:56 am, in reply to "Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, saying she was codependent on me"
Hey Charles,
Thanks for the reply. It's been a while longer now and I found out some things about her. Your ex seems to at least be more mature than mine. She's basically changed into this obnoxious, loud, dramatic person and some people are looking at her differently now. One of them told me: "I'm so glad you're moving on because you do not want to be with this chick, she is a child. Emotinally". So pretty much ascertains my view. I treated her very well, problem was she didn't appreciate it because she doesn't have any emotional experience. She's never had her heart broken. Now she's putting on this persona that seems to be the only thing that makes her feel better even though she's confused and hurt inside. I'm happy. I did my best and other women have said she was totally disrespectful and a coward for avoiding any effort to make things right. She only wanted the good times, not the bad. In short, unless you beat her or traumatized her psychologically, she was the person who was in the wrong. But only because she doesn't know better. Young adults need to go through experiences to give them better leverage in situations like these. Not everyone, but apparently our type of girls were. Give it time, it'll get better, I promise. I know it sucks but remember...everyone goes through it.
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