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Posted by jimmysmom on 7/24/2006, 12:00 pm, in reply to "Re: Is running away the only solution?"
One thing that you need to remember is that You are in no way responsible for her feelings or actions. Not everyone is ready to get better, it takes time to hit bottom, and really want to get better. I have understood for a very long time that I am a codependent, but beating it is a lot easier said than done. You are in an emotional battle against yourself, and you really don't like yourself very well, because you concider yourself unlovable. You have to find that place within yourself where you are happy in your own skin. You can't hold yourself responsible for her feelings. You can love and be support her without being codependent on her. Make her take responsiblity for her feelings, and actions. I wish you the best of luck.
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