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Posted by rc on 7/25/2006, 12:30 pm When we first met, I was the one who helped him with a lot of life issues. Now, to see him having to help me hurts soo much. And it's even worse for me to see how my codependence has hurt him. We had a heated argument the other night, and he has said since then that he almost lost me as a friend that night. But, he says that he hasn't completely lost hope. And, he's willing to come to a couple of counseling sessions with me and my current therapist to try to smooth things out. The thing is that I still feel so hopeless and helpless. What if he changes his mind between now and tomorrow's therapy session? Or, what if the therapy doesn't work? I've lost best friends before (although not for these reasons). I don't want to have to go through that pain again. Any words of advice and/or encouragement would be much appreciated! Thank you.
Hey Everyone... This is my first post here. I'm just now starting to come to terms with my codependence. Unfortunately, I'm afraid I may be driving my best friend away from me because I'm so codependent on him. It sucks that the very thing that brings us together--love and caring--is what is driving us apart.
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