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Posted by Ben on 8/14/2006, 7:19 am Anyone have similar experience to help me with?
Hello everyone.
I am struggling with some of my decisions to remain supportive to my ex. She is a "recovering" addict and she often reaches out in times of need. I have held my boundary of not seeing her but I have a hard time rationalizing not responding to another human being in times of need. I only give honest, direct advice to her and it does feel good to not have the guilt of abandoning her. At the same time i know that she is totally unable to be trusted or to have confidence in. I have a moral and rational struggle here and i don't really know how to deal with it. I detatched with love from the relationship and am building my life back and caring for myself. At the same time I am not sure if removing all contact is fair and right. I have fear. Fear of what I don't know but I have fear of myself I guess that i will allow myself to be injured emotionally if i continue to correspondence.
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