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Posted by Annette on 8/15/2006, 7:43 am, in reply to "Waffling on my boundaries."
Hello dear Ben.
I have not had the same experience, however, with all my life struggles with ex's and the break-ups I would suggest to stop the contact little by little and perhaps tell her in the most gentle and kind way possible that it is not good for you. Otherwise you continue to do it mostly for her and to cling to your fear. I know that kind of fear.. I call it recovery fear. The old fear which is activated because of old wounds. In my opinion it is not WHY but DO IT. I know... very easy for me to say.
Another option is to continue only by mail.
Take care... I know it is hard... Annette
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