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go for the long ride or accept the painful fact?

Posted by Ande on 12/22/2006, 7:03 pm

I am a 27 male and have been living a dysfuctional relationship for as long as I can remember and today I just found out the word for it: codependence. I have been spending the better part of the day reading any literatures available on the internet. I am quite glad that now I have a better idea of what's going on and yet extremely scared that there might not be any realistic helps out there -- or maybe i just feel it's almost imposible to muster all efforts to do the work needed to bring my current practice of dysfuctional relationship to, at least, a more fuctional level. It's like expecting to run a highschool track race while my current skills only allow me to crawl. Do anyone actually have that much patience in the tank for such a long ride? or should we just accept the painful fact and rearrange our world around it?

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Message Thread: go for the long ride or accept the painful fact? - Ande 12/22/2006, 7:03 pm Re: go for the long ride or accept the painful fact? - Scarlettleigh 12/29/2006, 10:49 am « Back to thread

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