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Posted by Michele on 1/7/2007, 7:20 pm
I posted "had to kick the boyfriend out" in August. Well, things are not going well since then. I have been an emotional wreck. I planned on renting my house to get away from my ex and his kid. Unfortunately, the people that were willing to rent my house were friends of my ex. A friend told me they just moved back into town and needed a three bedroom house. They were temporarily living with their parents. They were very interested/excited at first. Later, they told me they talked to ex and his son and wouldn't rent because the ex's son said I was psychotic. That really hurt my feelings. I text the ex to find out why his son was saying those things. Of course, ex's new girlfriend answered back. She than called from his phone and left a message to call. I called and she answered. Told her the situation about the renting, being called psychotic, etc...She sounded pretty sympathetic. Well, went out to a bar on Saturday with a girlfriend. The ex, girlfriend, and son were there. Went up to the son and told him to stop saying things about me or i will call his parole officer. I probably shouldn't have said anything, but I was hurt. Today, an officer showed up at my door telling me ex and girlfriend were going to press charges against me for calling supposedly 48 times and pushing a friend away so I could talk to the son. All, of which was a lie. My friend told me not to worry. The person I supposedly pushed was a friend of there's and she would have to press charges. My friend told me she would testify in court that I never touched anyone. She told me that was a rotten thing to do. I told the police officer my side. I also told him that the son is on parole and is not suppose to even be in a bar. He is serving a five year probation for domestic violence/alcohol abuse. Officers face looked shocked. The officer told me that if my story is correct...than don't worry. Easier said than done. I am soooooo mad, I want to call his parole officer and tell him. God, help me.
I am sick over the whole thing. I am trying to move on, but it seems like I'm always back in the same emotional rollercoaster ride that never seems to end. I am so depressed and angry over it. All I do is cry... I told my daughter I am glad the new girlfriend has to deal with ex and son. It's like a weight was lifted, but than when this happens...I feel terrible about myself again.
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