Posted by Pam on 7/10/2006, 11:27 am, in reply to "So this is a confessional?" The thing is, seduction is in a females nature. We have had this replaced by so called liberation. I do not feel liberated; I feel forced to partake in a sexual gymnastics with crude and base manner where men and women are reduced purely to physical sex. So I do not think men like you are perverse; rather it is society itself in its abdication of the art of feminity (including smoking) Whether its a glimpse of stocking, or posture or opening doors or having a cigarette lit or casually allowing your smoke exhale to drift toward a man and the way in which you hold the cigrette....these are all about seduction. For a woman who can transfix a man by smoking, she has power over him. For him to resist the urge to grab her and be physical too soon is a sign of respect for that. The ultimate in that has to be the maitresse...she doesnt even have to have sex....the man will pay for the seduction and control! (not that I have ever done anything like that but I have a sneaking admiration for women that are able to without getting vulgar). Have you ever had a negative reaction Smoked to your requests? I would guess not; I would guess a woman when she finds out that she can seduce someone like this and hold him transfixed is very happy!
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thats very honest and nice and if the truth were known I think there are many many men who share your desire in secret; and many women who like to oblige.
Being female was...is still to some...about developing the Art of seduction.
To secure a suitable partner one has to first transfix him. Seduction of the male voyeur,is an Art lost to some men who no longer appreciate feminity and would quite happily have sex with a pig.
Likewise, there are women to whom the sex act is more important than being seduced by the charm and manner of a man.
there is no conquest, no securing of a suitable mate and therefore passing on of the strongest genes in any of that.
and manners (including male etiquette)that is lost.
My daughter feels the same.
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