The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
Can you seriously talk to your brother about why he feels he won’t live to 80? How old is your Dad? Most often it’s the people closest and caring for them that see/know/have a feeling what’s really going on. Does that make sense. I knew for a year mom was getting close and told the kids to visit more but Andy didn’t listen to me.
Why do you think he’s so short of breath? Did I miss that?