The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I am very sorry to hear of what you are all going thru. what would happen if you would take your dad to an emergency room..might it hurray things along. Do you have them in Canada.
This is so frustrating. Can you insist that your brother get a break. It would be so good for him. I am sorry your brother and dad are so stubborn.