The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I hope you didn't take my comment in a negative way. My thoughts went to how far away Christmas is and how much can happen. He might not even get out of jail. She may "come to Jesus" and realize this isn't right for her or her family. I know how much you love your time with Carin and the boys.
I'm sure if things change (and I pray that they do!) that you could always adjust your amazing trip time. I only want what's good for Paula's happiness.