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The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
Shirley! And anyone who wants to read my update
Posted by Cindyh on 4/15/2018, 2:36 pm
I'm here. How are you? I'm ok. Hanging in here. It's a very trying time for me. Moms stage 4 cancer diagnosis from last year has been SO hard. Mentally emotionally physically. We are SO close. It is hard to see her going downhill. I cannot imagine a day when I cannot talk to her. |
On a positive note I have a beautiful new grandbaby named Lily (Liliana) after my grandma. She was born a few weeks after my knee replacement Oct 30. It's been a tough last year
I'm going to read through the posts. I am so glad you came back. I really missed you Shirley. More than you know.
Posted by shirley on 4/16/2018, 11:37 am, in reply to "Shirley! And anyone who wants to read my update"
to hear from you, sweet friend. i know this time with mom is unbelievably hard but cindyh, know that i understand and will keep you both in my prayers. cherish every minute you have with her. you are a good, faithful daughter. i love you.|
Posted by Cindyh on 4/17/2018, 2:59 am, in reply to "So grateful"
I have missed you so. I put my email there please send me yours. You've been such a friend to me for 19 years now. I love you. I do cherish every moment with Mom. I am so glad I moved her in with me 6 years ago. We've had great times. I cannot imagine the day I can't talk to her. I just can't. We've talked pretty much every day of my adult life and I'll be 53 in June. |
She has a new scan the 23rd and then oncologist 24 th and radiation Dr 26th to find out if the pallative radiation shrunk the tumor at all or how much. I suspect we will know more then. Maybe not. It's in God's hands.
I know I am SO grateful you are back my friend. I have prayed for that!
so glad you posted!!!!
Posted by Beverly on 4/16/2018, 11:01 am, in reply to "Shirley! And anyone who wants to read my update"
I am sending you hugs and prayers. I am sorry for your mom's cancer. Loving you have a new baby in the family. YAY |
Take care now.
Posted by Cindyh on 4/17/2018, 2:52 am, in reply to "so glad you posted!!!!"
Aren't babies a blessing? Hannah named her after my Grandma Lily and mom's middle name Joyce. Liliana Joyce. A true family name. It honored mom. I honestly think she's hanging on because of her|
So glad you posted.
Posted by Paula on 4/16/2018, 9:00 am, in reply to "Shirley! And anyone who wants to read my update"
The whole 'circle of life.' Beautiful on one side and so sad on the other. We're here every day if you need to 'talk.'|
Posted by Cindyh on 4/17/2018, 2:49 am, in reply to "Itís good to see you here..."
I'm here more than you know but I feel bad posting depressing stuff so much|
((( CindyH )))
Posted by Krista on 4/15/2018, 8:15 pm, in reply to "Shirley! And anyone who wants to read my update"
I wish I had a magic wand to make things better. I am so sorry to hear about your Mom's health. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and the family.|
Posted by Cindyh on 4/17/2018, 2:48 am, in reply to "((( CindyH )))"
I truly appreciate it. This is my only place I can really talk about it except for one friend I can trust because mom hasn't and won't tell some of the family. She's still in denial|
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