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Posted by Laura --Previous Message--
on 5/2/2004, 5:24 pm, in reply to "Is it worth it?"
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Hey James-
Are there children involved? If not, I wouldn't give away my energy to someone all the more willing to drain it. She's bitter and wants you to get that you made her life miserable. My ex and I are great friends - now. It took a while, and I'm the one who left the marriage, but he's happy in his new marriage and I get along great with his new wife. As a matter of fact, while he's deployed in Afghanistan, I'm going down to Savannah to help Mindy paint their nursery. If your ex can't (or isn't ready) to let go of the bad stuff, she's just going to repeat her pattern of hurting and making you hurt in return. But that's on her, isn't it. Nothing you can do. She'll either come to the realization on her own (perhaps when she finds love again) or she won't. Concentrate on you and what's next for you rather than giving anyone else the power to raise your blood-pressure. That's my humble opinion. Best of luck, James!
Laura
: My ex and I emailed each other, nice emails
: from her, mine were more business like.
: Anyway I asked a question about a credit
: report and she ( via email) replied in a
: sarcastic way. I replied back and told her
: she was being sarcastic, she replied back and
: attacked ME over our marriage failing etc
: etc. ( we have been divorced for over 3 years
: now) My qiuestion is...is it worth it for me
: to reply to her.? She said some things that
: aren't true, should I call her on them. Or
: just ignore her and never reply to anything
: she sends me.???
: Thanks, James
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