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Posted by James on 5/5/2004, 4:21 am, in reply to "Re: Is it worth it?" THANKS for your comments. No children involved...my ex is actually re-married, has been for over 2 years now. Maybe she isn't very happily married.??Her emails were more...fond memories of our time togther. They made me a little uncomfortable. But I replied...sometimes...because I have some memories too. But then she went into attack mode. I ended up writing to her but never sending it. It just didn't seem worth it, so basically I did what you suggested. THANKS AGAIN for taking the time to reply, Godspeed to your husband in Afghanistan. All My best, James --Previous Message--
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Laura~
: Hey James-
: Are there children involved? If not, I
: wouldn't give away my energy to someone all
: the more willing to drain it. She's bitter
: and wants you to get that you made her life
: miserable. My ex and I are great friends -
: now. It took a while, and I'm the one who
: left the marriage, but he's happy in his new
: marriage and I get along great with his new
: wife. As a matter of fact, while he's
: deployed in Afghanistan, I'm going down to
: Savannah to help Mindy paint their nursery.
: If your ex can't (or isn't ready) to let go
: of the bad stuff, she's just going to repeat
: her pattern of hurting and making you hurt in
: return. But that's on her, isn't it.
: Nothing you can do. She'll either come to
: the realization on her own (perhaps when she
: finds love again) or she won't. Concentrate
: on you and what's next for you rather than
: giving anyone else the power to raise your
: blood-pressure. That's my humble opinion.
: Best of luck, James!
: Laura
: --Previous Message--
: My ex and I emailed each other, nice emails
: from her, mine were more business like.
: Anyway I asked a question about a credit
: report and she ( via email) replied in a
: sarcastic way. I replied back and told her
: she was being sarcastic, she replied back and
: attacked ME over our marriage failing etc
: etc. ( we have been divorced for over 3 years
: now) My qiuestion is...is it worth it for me
: to reply to her.? She said some things that
: aren't true, should I call her on them. Or
: just ignore her and never reply to anything
: she sends me.???
: Thanks, James
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