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on 4/19/2005, 2:47 am, in reply to "How To Read A Womens Body Language!"
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: About reading body language (read this
: first)...
:
: It is only necessary for a player to have a
: basic understanding of body language in
: order to see results.
:
:
: Body language consists of two basic types of
: gestures: open gestures and closed gestures.
: Open gestures are displayed when the woman
: is interested in or attracted to the person
: presented to her, while closed gestures are
: displayed when she is not.
:
:
: Becoming a master of body language is the
: ability to read these signs and use them to
: your advantage. You must understand that
: many things can effect a persons body
: language. For example, if a woman is having
: a bad day, she may display closed gestures
: while she is actually attracted to you. Also
: keep in mind that many shy people
: automatically but up a barrier between you
: and them by displaying closed gestures, and
: our ability to break down these barriers by
: changing these closed gestures into open
: gestures is what separates us players from
: the rest.
:
:
: Now you know what body language is, and that
: everyone has the ability to effect and
: change someone else's body language from
: negative to positive by simply warming up to
: them (macking). It's time to learn what
: these gestures are so you can identify and
: use them to your advantage...
:
: The Open Gestures...
:
: You give me butterflies! - Once you make eye
: contact with a woman, watch her for a few
: seconds after she looks away. If she does
: something that implies that she has become
: nervous due to you making eye contact, this
: means that she is interested in or attracted
: to you. For instance, she will play with her
: hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or
: fiddle with something in her hands.
:
:
:
: "read" her palms - She will expose
: her wrists and palms of her hands only to
: people she is interested in. This is a
: subconscious display of being submissive to
: you, in which her body is saying "If
: you want me, you can have me".
:
:
:
: Locked on target - Her shoulder orientation
: is one of the most obvious signs of
: attraction. Her upper body will be facing
: you if she is interested, in essence, she
: points her shoulders at what she wants.
:
:
:
: The lean - Leaning foward is also an easy
: sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at
: you and she is leaning towards you, then you
: can put your mind at ease, it's yours for
: the taking.
:
:
:
: You coming in or what? - When her legs or
: feet are widened this means she is very
: comfortable with her surroundings and with
: you.
:
:
:
: Eyes are not just decoration - Her pupils
: will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a
: person she likes, and will get smaller while
: looking at a person she does not. Keep in
: mind that lighting can greatly effect this.
: For instance, if you are outside when the
: sun is present, her pupils may appear to be
: very small no matter how much she likes you,
: and vice versa. The best method to use for
: testing this is when you can view the change
: in her pupils when looking at you and then
: at someone else.
:
:
:
: Say "cheese" - This is a
: no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you
: make eye contact, get over there and talk to
: her.
:
:
:
: When did I become funny? - One of the best
: signs you can hope for is when she will
: laugh at just about every slick thing you
: try to say. You may begin to think that you
: might actually be pretty funny, but your
: wrong, she just likes you alot, and that's
: even better!
:
:
:
: As good as gold - If she touches you
: multiple times while she is talking, for
: instance, tapping you on the forearm when
: trying to make a point, remember to tell her
: what you like for breakfast so she knows
: what to cook in the morning.
:
:
:
: You must do your duty - She will make eye
: contact with you and hold it for a longer
: than usual period of time, almost
: uncomfortably long. Before looking away,
: remember to smile at her. This will let her
: know that you are interested and are a nice
: guy. Following this, you may also notice her
: glance at you occasionally. After the second
: or third look it should become obvious to
: you that she wants you to talk to her, so it
: is your duty as a player to give her what
: she wants
:
:
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