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    Re: Big gay essay

    Posted by Yer Humble Host on 7/27/2006, 6:02 pm, in reply to "Re: Big gay essay"
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    You've demonstrated a point I just made in another post.

    I notice that you said "openly homosexual". That's a whole different ballgame that merely being homosexual. I fully concur that choosing to live openly as a homosexual may well be viewed as some sort of political statement, just as choosing to live in the closet may be viewed as a statement of its own. But it is the CHOICE that is political, not the homosexuality itself.

    I question the assumption that sexual orientation is an accurate predictor of subsequent choices which may or may not be related to sexuality.

    Yes, odds are a homosexual will ultimately decide to start having sex with members of his own gender. But it's not an absolute given, just as it's not a given that a homosexual will vote Democratic or start buying a specific brand of vodka based merely on his sexual orientation.

    --Previous Message--
    : Well, I guess I admit to falling in
    : camp #2. In this culture, there's
    : just no way one can be openly
    : homosexual without there being
    : political implications. It may not
    : be right, it may not seem fair,
    : but that's just the way it is. As
    : with sex/gender, race, religion,
    : economics, etc., politicization
    : starts with something that on its
    : face shouldn't be used as an
    : excuse to oppress, but which does,
    : and from then on, it's political,
    : like it or not. And it requires a
    : response.
    :
    : --Previous Message--
    : Nope. Not at all.
    :
    : I'll admit to recognizing two
    : camps, but they are defined as (1)
    : those who believe that sexual
    : orientation is about sex, and (2)
    : those who believe it is about
    : something more than sex.
    :
    : I think that "gay" is a
    : loaded term which invokes the
    : philosophy of camp number 2. It
    : comes with an agenda, just like
    : "queer", even though
    : most people who use it casually
    : probably don't have this intent.
    :
    : --Previous Message--
    : I agree with much of what David
    : writes, actually, especially his
    : conclusions. Surprise!
    :
    : My general objection is that he
    : seems to put all us homos into one
    : of two boxes: those who ape
    : slavishly every aspect of gay
    : culture (whom he dubs
    : "gay"), and those who
    : are totally divorced from any hint
    : of it ("homosexual"). I
    : think that's way too simple; I
    : certainly don't fit into either
    : category, and I'm not familiar
    : with anyone who does.
    :
    : --Previous Message--
    : I noticed that, too. However I so
    : strongly agree with the main
    : premise of the essay that sexual
    : orientation is but one aspect of a
    : person's personality, that even
    : considering the parts I take issue
    : with, my overall impression is one
    : of agreement.
    :
    : The analogy I've used with myself
    : is that personality has many
    : hundreds of different dimensions,
    : and the gay/straight axis is but
    : one of them. I find our society's
    : obsession with classifying people
    : along it oppressive.
    :
    : --Previous Message--
    : I had lots of reactions to your
    : essay, most of which I think I'd
    : better address at my own site
    : someday. One question for now,
    : though: how can sexual orientation
    : be politically neutral when
    : discrimination based on that
    : factor is alive and well? Doesn't
    : the fact of that discrimination,
    : and that "enemies of sexual
    : freedom must be fought off,"
    : make sexuality political?
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