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Posted by jm on 12/1/2005, 12:12 pm So that was the fight...now on to the aftermath... she had no cell phone, and her parents house was without a phone line so i couldnt get through... this was a friday night... i had to wait until monday to call her at work to make sure she was ok and all... monday morning to my surprise she shows up, but to get all of her stuff (this happens too often, she likes to take all her stuff every time we have aserious fight to scare me, and it works!!) she was cool and calm with me... asked me to help her gather her stuff and take them to her car.. i apologized for the millionth time and said i cant, i dont support her leaving... she noticed i had placed a deskfan ontop of a book of hers, and blew up and started crying, telling me she hopes i die... i just sat there very upset, not knowing what to do... within 5 mins she was out of there.. she called me 2 hours later to apologize for telling me to die... she made sure i was ok and that i would accept her apology... i asked her to accept mine too, for the roof thing.. she said we need some time apart, "last time we got into a fight like this 1 month wasn't eough" she said... a year ago we got into a really bad fight and she left for a month, then came back.. she tells me she got a cell phone, told me all about it.. but wouldnt give me her number... she said its not a good idea for us to talk right now, i need time to myself to think about things for being so violent.. so the conversation ended there... she calls back a few hours later to tell me she was getting her hair and nails done and to see if she left anything behind.. i told her of a couple things i found... the next day i try to call her, she will not pick up her phone, nor at work... the next day was by 23rd bday (nov 25) she left a voice mail (hey, i hope your having a very good day, please call me as soon as you get this so we can talk) i despretly find away to get outside to call her back (she wants to talk to me!!) i call her and she just says in an angry voice, look, i just called to say happy bday, thats all) i sai dok, thanks, i miss her, she says no you dont, dont tell me that... i tell her how much i love her, she gets pissed "no you dont!!" and hangs up... two days pass, she wont answer her phone... finially i get the idea to *67 her phone.. she pickes up! "Hey! i got you! ha ha a" she gives a slight laugh and says damnit! i ask her how she's been, she says not very good.. i told her i was doing a lot better,, had time to think about things.. apologized again and again, she god mad for me saying i was ok, when she was not doing ok ( i really wasn't, i just told her so thinking she may come back..) so i then told her i was making that up, i cant eat sleep or focus on anything... she says to stop talking about this stuff.. and that its too soon for us to be talking again.. that she feels she is making it look like its ok for me to talk again after what i did.. and to top it off, she even bought a new car. i put the icing on the cake for that decision of hers, but i feel 100% responcible (the hurricane tore up the top and it leaked everywhere).. now the hurricane tore up the roof at my appartment and i have until dec 3rd to move out.. i asked her if she thought i should go back to my parents place since it doesnt look like she wants me back anytime soon (parents are in md) she got all upset said im pressuring her.. (i dont really plan to go home at all, i figured ide have a chance to hear her say no dont go home!) insted she nearly starts crying about me leaving the decision to her... so she hangs up on me.. i havnt gotten in touch with her since (2 days now) a gal friend of mine tells me that she wants her time, and that by me trying to call her 3 times aday makes it easy for her not to pick up because she knows im still there, and trying to get intouch, she tells me i should stop calling and that will make here worry.. sound accurate? can anybody tell me what to think of this situation? shes the type that thinks time heals everything, and this will be the third time shes moved out (1 month behing the longest, but that fight was real bad compared to this one) i want her back, i dont want to hear move on.. i just want sombody to help me better understand whats going on inside her head and any advice for me to getting her back... PLEASE HELP!! -j
Hey guys, im once again turning to this fourm for help and advice to get my girlfriend back.. we have lived together for 2.5 years now, we do have fights, but i love our relationship.. her only complaints about us is that i treat her more like a friend than a girlfriend.. she has spolied me with gifts since day one... my excuse is that i pay the rent and that leaves me with very little to spend... anyway... on with the story... i recently repaired her rag top roof that was destroyed by hurricane wilma and everything was good between us... she came home from work about 10 days ago in a very bad mood because of work and some jerk drivers on her way home.. i too was in a bad mood from work.. so we naturally were ticking timebombs.... i remember her tellin me about her day.. then once i got the idea of it i interupted her with my day.. she exploded for me cutting her off (im soooo sorry now!!) so she marches out of the house to her car in the parking lot... i ran after her and begged her to stay.. she continued to tell me how i never listen to her, my problems are always more important to talk about than hers... i said sorry just stay, let me take you out to dinner.. she was liek its too late, and slamms the door in my face... te convertiable rag top material had a cut in it from a branch that flew into it so i tried to put my arm through to unlock her door, she started backing up so i blew up and swung my arm back to get it out, and tore the entire roof off (it was taped on anyway) it made me look crazy, one arm ripping the whole top off.. and it was in the rain... so she drove off in the rain to her parents place 10 miles away...
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