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Posted by ali on 12/28/2005, 2:59 pm
So here is my story - I just need an outside perspective as my friends are all too involved in the situation.
I met this guy and basically we were seeing each other quite intensely for about 3 months - he always made it clear that he couldn't commit to me as he had come out of a six month relationship and had basically been sewing his wild oats until he met me. He would say things to me like "I love everything about you" and "I don't want to sleep with other people", so I eventually had enough of his inability to commit so said he either committed to me or I was gone. So he said we'd give it a try being committed. Four days later he dumped me. Two days after that he begged me to take him back. Like a mug I did. Four days later he dumped me again! He said I'm the woman he wants to marry but he's worried that if he doesn't get everything out of his system he may cheat on me and he respects me too much to do that. I have been seeing him very regularly since we split, we have been sleeping together and we talk on the phone at least twice a day. Every once in a while though I will freak and say I can't talk to him again as the situation is too hurtful, but I always end up talking to him again. This time though I have stuck to it and I intend not to speak to him for a while.
My worry is that I feel we are meant to be together and if I do this he may forget about me - not that I'm waiting around for him, but I like to believe that when he's sorted his stuff out we could be together. You are probably all screaming at the computer "he's just not that into you" - but he claims that I'm the girl for him, just now is not the time.
Help! - I'm in such a mess about this - I'm usually so rational when it comes to men, but I really feel that he could be the one - aaaaaaggghhhh!!!!!
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