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Posted by azul2006 But I'm all alone now. I'm thinking about you. I'm thinking we could have a platonic relationship. You were never that attracted to me physically anyway. It's Christmas. I just did not want to bring you down or cause you distress but I did not want to ignore the issues you raised. I care about you. Please have a Happy Christmas. I'm extremely lost on what to do. On one hand I want another chance but on the other hand, how much rejection can I stand. I'm not comfortable in the chasing role and have never done this before. Usually, I'm just happy to walk away. I have been thinking that perhaps I'm trying to punish myself and perhaps justify what I do by turning the table around. Is there anything to salvage here?
on 12/28/2005, 10:57 pm
My boyfriend of eight months has recently ended our relationship. I have realized that I made a mistake and that I really love him. We fought about diet, nutrition, and clothing, otherwise we got a long great. He is a kind person but has some issues regarding rejection from his past relationship. I made him feel like he wasn't good enough, eventhough now I realize he was. He have been communicating eventhough we split up but it's has been mainly me trying to get him back. I have realized how stupid I was and want another chance. At one point we got together and started discussing getting back together. It was very pleasant, I felt confident, and then two days later I get an e-mail saying, "I know we need to talk about us, but I have been ignoring it." I was very hurt, got angry and sent a nasty e-mail telling him that he was cold and insensitive. Later I apologized and told him that I felt rejected and hurt. I also expressed that I love him and wanted another chance. He told me that he was going through a weird stage, felt nothing for anyone, and was emotionally unavailable. A week a later a friend of mine sees his profile on an internet dating site with pictures taken at my parents house and from trips we did. I then receive an e-mail:
I'm thinking that our interactions recently seem to result in pain to at least one of us. Maybe if we lose the attachment, romantic, sexual aspects of a relationship we can salvage something that results in positive interactions.
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