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Posted by racheal
on 1/6/2006, 10:52 am, in reply to "please help me understand her"
my fiance and i went through this phase,it's probably the hardest bridge to cross,and it takes major effort.it requires you to want to happy,no matter what,and then you have to mean it.you have to be willing to stop her at the door,even if you're still angry,suck it up,and put your arms around her,beg her to stay,and tell her you need her. forgive me for intruding into this area,but you said she says you treat her more like a friend than a girlfriend? coming from a woman who is feeling the same way right now, you aren't making love to her enough. I don't mean having sex,animals can do that. I mean,touching her body,holding her,looking into her eyes when you kiss her,showing her you desire her.pulling her body to yours,like you did in the beginning.I'm about to marry the man of my dreams,by this,I mean, after four years,I still wake up happy to see him next to me,I can't wait for him to get home,so I can hold him,and see his beautiful face,to touch him,breathe him in. I am more in love with him now ,than I was in the beginning.and we had a very rocky start,I left at least 12 times in the first 2 years. the reason, he never once begged me to stay,he always let me go. dont let her go,if you give her space right now, you will lose her. she wants to know without a doubt that she is your moon and stars,if she is,you better show her. love has no room for pride.so leave that at the door. women need the sappy love story type loving,maybe not all the time, but the need is there, and it's monumentally important. don't stop calling her,call her more,fill up the machine,make the biggest ass of yourself as you can,until you have her in your arms,I promise if you take this approach,you can't lose. repeat after me:LOVE HAS NO ROOM FOR PRIDE! it sounds like she would give you the world on a silver platter, so go show her you would give her the universe, and mean it.
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