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Posted by Jessica
on 1/6/2006, 8:47 pm
I have to be in the most messed up relationship and need some serious advice. I met my fiance 6 months ago. I'm 20 and he's 24. We were together for a month and got in a fight and I stopped talking to him. I met someone else and started dating him while we were apart. About a month after I left my fiance I found out i was pregnant. Could be either guys. Got an ultrasound done and according to the dates they gave me its my fiance's baby. Although there is still a chance its not, considering how close the dates are with each guy. I call my fiance, who was only my boyfriend then, and tell him I'm pregnant. He had emailed me 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant and told me he thought I was pregnant...that he had dreams about it. We get back together but he still doesn't think the baby is his. But he still asked me to marry him and I live with him and we're setting up the nursery. He says its over if the DNA test after the baby's born shows he's not the father. Things are constantly tense between us...we get into fights over nothing and he gives me the silent treatment for days after each fight. He doesn't trust me because he says I left him for another guy even though I didn't start dating the other guy until we were separated. I honestly believe the baby's his but we are falling apart fast. We started out this relationship all messed up. We've been together for 6 months, including the month we were apart, and I'm 6 months pregnant! I love him so much and would never hurt him again but now he's hurting me. I found he was talking to another girl online. So I made up this fake girl and now he's talking to her (me) and he's saying he wasn't to meet her and calling her sexy and beautiful. I confronted him about talking to another girl, even though it was actually me, and he said it was all a set up to see how nosey I was. I don't know what to believe. I used to be able to trust him, even though he didn't trust me. Now I can't trust him either. Is our relationship salvagable. After he finds out its his baby, hopefully, do you think things will get better and all this crap can be in the past. Everything's so messed up I don't know what to do.
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