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Posted by Kell
on 1/7/2006, 9:29 pm, in reply to "Re: please help me understand her"
I was reading your story, and feeling a bit heartbroken myself right now, and a need for understanding, I felt compelled to write and hopefully learn some things myself. First off, where are the two of you at now? I was instantly able to relate to the first initial explanation. As the woman in my relationship I often feel that my boyfriend doesn't treat me sexy, doesn't treat me sensitively. I don't know maybe your girlfriend felt that if she kept settling and just accepting your lack of listening or whatever little things that a person in a relationship desires, that it wouldn't get better. It would just always stay the same. I know I feel like that sometimes. I have recently moved to a small country town 25 miles from my job, even further from all of my friends, and far away from a decent mall, I really enjoy all of these things if you haven't guessed. When my boyfriend, whom I have lived with for about 6 months, got a job promotion which put him in another area I didn't even question the move. I was there to support and "spoil" him with any and everything I could to help him get rid of his nerves and worry accepting this new position would bring. I was so worried about helping him and making sure he was happy, I didn't even think about my own. So here I am, very unhappy in an area I dont like just sucking it up. When I brought up my feelings of unhappiness he told me that I was just being negative and he has to live there for his job. Feeling a bit uncomfortable about his response, as well as shoved aside, I dropped it because I didn't want his temper flaring and telling me to stop nagging or something. When I brought this feeling of unhappiness again, he told me that he didnt care if I wanted to live somewhere else. How do you think I should feel about this? I am actually scared to death, he doesn't care about my happiness. I think that might be a feeling that your girlfriend might have. I am also 23 years old and so is my boyfriend. I am just so scared to leave him,we have invested so much together. What would you be thinking. My hands are numb right now and I feel that my heart is breaking. I often feel sorry for myself and i hate that. We didn't used to be like this.
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