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Posted by Gregg I feel for you. But I think you know the answer to this problem already. The relationship is definitely messed up. And it will probably only get more messed up. By what you describe, it sounds as if he is only in this to hurt you, and because it's possible that the baby is his. If he is messing around with other girls online, it's only a matter of time before he starts messing around with them in your bed. And once that baby is born, it will be even harder to leave. Your best bet is to leave now, have the baby and tell him it's not his so he won't try and get custody. Then stay away from him. My wife had a similar problem with a man she got pregnant with before we met. She tried to work it out though and it ended up costing her pretty badly in court for custody. Now she wishes she had just left when she was in the stage that you are at now. I don't know if anyone else on here disagrees, but I think your man has made it pretty apparent that this relationship is not a healthy one. I hope whatever you decide to do works out for the best.
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on 1/8/2006, 6:09 pm, in reply to "Please help! I badly need some serious advice!"
Jessica,
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