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Posted by Gregg Did something happen around the time that he started acting weird like this? There are a few things that come to mind that would cause this. 1) Depression - If your fiance is suffering from depression, his sex drive will drop like a rock. He will feel inadequate and have extreme withdrawal, believing that he will fail in pleasing you. So if he suffers from depression, or exhibits the symptoms of depression (some more subtle than others) then that could be the cause, and he will definitely need help. 2) Something in the relationship isn't right and he is punishing you for it. The only way you are going to resolve this is to do some detective work and think back to what happened around the time that he started acting like this, and then start talking to him about what's going on. 3) He has a woman on the side. He might be seeing someone else who is satisfying him elsewhere to the point that he no longer feels the need to be sexual at home with you. 4) He is having second thoughts about the relationship/marriage/commitment and it's making him feel too guilty for sex. 5) He is realizing that he is gay and doesn't find sex to be a turn on with you anymore because he wants the love of a man. I know these are all really harsh things, but they are only some of the possible explainations. The only thing you can really do to sort this out is sit your fiance down and have a real heart to heart conversation with him about it. If he loves you, he will tell you the truth. Good luck.
on 1/8/2006, 6:16 pm, in reply to "no intimacy"
Racheal,
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