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Posted by guest on 1/31/2006, 3:01 am
- Men dont like women that are head ####s. Make things clear, easy and solve-able to them, otherwise they get confused and frustrated, feel hopeless, helpless. For example, when women talk about their day, and she expresses frustrations then men sometimes feel like they need to "fix" it, whereas the women just need to vent.
- Men like women who have their own lives/friends/happiness/who are independent (not clingy)
- Men like fun, sociable, happy women.
- Everyone gravitates towards a sense of power/confidence/control/happiness/etc.
- People gravitate to those that 'have it together', but in real love you should be able to show weaknesses, emotions, etc and be accepted and loved no matter what. This is what he shows me.
- Men need breaks, they need their 'boy' time and their 'pub' time, they need to get away for awhile, from us women.
- Consider what they've done to anger you, have ~you~ done that before, why is it ok for you, but not for them. Is it reasonable? Are you hormonal??? Are you insecure????
- You can talk to your closest friends about your problems but DO NOT bag your partner to anyone. This includes 'b###hing' and 'complaining' about him. DO NOT critisize your loved ones in public. RESPECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!! Why would you not respect it? Keep private things/moments/problems PRIVATE and between only you and him.
- Remember when you read that relationships bond togeher when the two people in that relationship share moments/thoughts/acts/topics of conversation that are between only them, and no one else.
- Communication and sex are the two 'glues'.
- Keep it light hearted. Don't be too serious.
- Put yourself in their shoes!! Imagine if what your saying to them was being said to yourself!!!
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