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Posted by Nick I met this woman 8 months ago; it was more like in passing. Well I got to really know this woman very well in the next few months. She was in a very unstable marriage at the time, but all we did was talk... Well months later they decide to separate, she moved out into an APT. This happens to be the second time they separated. Still at this time we were close friends. We would go to lunch, go to the local park in the evening and sit and talk about stuff. During this time I was shocked at just how much I had in common with this woman. We as you can imagine thing started to change between us, we became closer. By this time the holidays came up, we did Christmas and New Years together. Well you can see that things are starting to heat up here. The first time we kissed it was like a 4th of July Fireworks display. You hear people talk about this feeling but I felt it. I know that sounds stupid... Even months after the first kiss, I still get chill bumps... It was starting to appear to me that this woman is the other half of my body. With out her I was lost and she told me the same...Her hugs, Her Conversation, Her Presents... I need it; I have to have it... Well A few weeks ago, her husband got into a bad accident; she called me crying and upset. Which I understand. I would probably feel the same if it was my soon to be X of 15 yrs that got in an accident. We talk all the way to hospital; I was worried about her driven there. We talk the whole time he was in the hospital. He gets released days later to go home and she feels obligated to go be there for him. She is there 5 days taking care of him. Well you can imagine what this is doing to me. I'm loosing my mind. She gets back to her place and I can tell something is wrong. We started talking the other night and she is confused.... She asked me if we could back off... Just be friends.... I need your advice My question is what should I do, Just be her friend and let her call me.
on 3/16/2006, 11:08 pm
I really don't know where to start...
Just be her friend and still talk like we have in the past.
Try and forget about her and move on.
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