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Posted by Marcia
on 3/25/2006, 6:51 pm
I have been dating this guy for 2 mos. now. He was married for 17 years and said his marriage was over 10 years ago when she stopped having anything to do with him. He stayed in the marriage "for the kids sake". His divrorce was final in Dec. 2005. Even though he has been telling me and others that he is over it, he talks about her in sentimental long stories, once while we were laying on the couch holding each other. Last week he told me she was trying to manipulate him into coming to her wedding next month, by saying one of their kids needed a late ride to the out of town event. He stated "if I went, I'd take you and then I would get very drunk" hinting that he would make a scene. I heard story after story til I told him it was a turn off and that we could break up over it, if it does not stop. He also, instead of getting his kids for visitation would go over to her house for several hours to visit the kids. I corrected that too. But I am having second thoughts and feel like she is still in his head and he knows to be careful about what he says b/c I will break up with him. There is more, like he calls her and gets into long conversations, and the next minute he says she is a b--ch. On the flip side, he kisses my butt, and tells me over and over again how much he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Am I blowing this out of proportion or what?
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