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Posted by mbcarter My daughter is in college and was not happy where she is living. But seemingly overnight, she went from wanting to relocate closer to home to absolutely loving her job and loving where she is living. The only thing that has changed in her life is this guy. She even went from wanting to get back with her ex of over five years to wanting nothing to do with him because of a phone call from this new guy. She has told me that she is the first person he has dated since his breakup with his wife. His wife just moved her things out of his house a few days ago. That is how recent this divorce is. The guy made the statement he didn't want anything serious with anyone until he realized what a great girl my daughter is--and she is. My daughter is very naive, and seems to fall easily for guys. My big concern and question, is this guy rebounding,? and is this a rebound relationship,? and is my daughter going to be devastated if and when it is over? I also wander how long is it going to take before this guy realizes? When I try to speak to my daughter about this she gets very defensive and angry. She tells me she didn't rush this relationship. But, she has known him for about 8-10 weeks and they are together every waking minute and I strongly suspect even the nonwaking moments. I am a Christian, and my children have been raised in church. My husband and I have tried to set wonderful examples. She knows our expectations and God's expectations on how she should live her life. But like a lot of young people, she is ignoring that. I have told her I trust her judgement, and I am sure this guy is wonderful. But my gut tells me she is making a big mistake and will suffer. I know I can't live her life for her, and she has to make her own mistakes, and I know she has to figure this out on her own. I guess I just want some feedback as to whether I am concerned for no reason or if the relationship is as it seems--a rebound relationship for him. Please give me some feedback! Thanks!
on 7/1/2006, 2:23 pm
I have a big concern. My 21 year old daughter began dating a young man who she says has just recently divorced. However, I wonder if he is not still in the process. Either way, she has been dating him for about eight weeks.
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