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Posted by Erica
on 11/22/2006, 2:00 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Well, longer, but technically been a couple for almost a year. Anyway...I'm pregnant and we were supposed to be married a few weekends ago but he basically got scared and bailed out on me. Before any of that happened though, there was a girl that he was talking to. A girl from work and at first it didn't seem so bad but he was hiding it from me. Phone calls, texts, e-mails...who knows what else? And really, I have no idea what was said between the 2 of them. But I asked him to please stop talking to her and hiding it from me because that's the reason I was suspicious in the first place. THEN I find that he is still talking to her. He hid her number in his phone under a guys name and I happened to catch it. So I asked him again, stop doing this. Ya know, it just doesn't seem like I asked that much of him. Well, then he left and of course, I expected them to talk and whatever. He and I were still talking and trying to work on things and he got put in a hotel for work and asked me to come stay with him for a few nights while he was there. The first night I was there, she shows up. He swore to me that he never told her where he was going to be and I actually believe him because she had to ask the lady at the front desk if there was someone under his name staying at that particular hotel. She drove OVER 30 minutes to talk to him and of course, didn't get to because of me. Well yesterday I got into his myspace account because I just had some sneaking suspicion something was going on again, plus she is now on his friends list when she wasn't a few weeks ago. ALL kinds of stuff in there about how she was sorta his girlfriend and she loved him. HE apologized to HER for everything that happened at the hotel. He did tell her in one message that he couldn't have anything to do with her outside of work and she just will not leave him alone. He says now that she means nothing to him other than a friend which has kinda been his testimony all along BUT he still just can't let her go. He can't just work with her and leave it at that. He is her BOSS too. He says she'll never step foot in his place and blah blah blah. She just wants to be his friend. Blah. So I've asked him once again to put an end to all of it. I wish he'd just let me do it myself but he won't. I don't know what to do and it is really upsetting to me because I do love him more than anything or else I wouldn't give him chance after chance to fix this. I want to know what I should do or say to him and to her, if I should say anything at all. Just...how do I handle this?
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