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Posted by Jill on 8/3/2005, 4:57 pm
I really need some help dealing with my husband's affair. We were seperated at the time, but we were working on our problems...then I found out he slept with one of the employees at our store. We have sinced resolved alot of issues and have been back together for two years. He has never had an affair before this or again...this affair has hurt him too. However, I have been constantly tormented with thoughts of this affair...tormented by unanswered questions of what happened...so I went ahead and asked...and I shouldn't have. Now I have details that I shouldn't have known...I am absolutely devistated...and the occurance happened in our family store. Now when I walk in here every morning I imagine my husband on the floor with another woman. He says its been two years and I have to get over it and stop bringing it up against him...but I am not bringing it up "against" him. I'm not attacking him with anything...I am just grieving it. I can't imagine anything more painful to happen in a relationship and I don't know how to get it out of my head...please help!
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